Vol. 12 l Issue 4 Fall /Winter 2010 - P. 1
 

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Florals For Every Scene

Rippe Photo Wedding Don't be afraid to unleash your personal style. You can transform your wedding scene into anything you desire.

Remember, it's your day, this is the time to go all out. Be creative and marry flowers, succulents, fruit and yes, even veggies into your floral arrangements.

Do not be afraid to ask the professionals to assist you in setting the stage for your perfect wedding scene.

Get inspired here as you view wedding florals. Click here to start your search for professional florist in your planning city.







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White is not the only option
When it comes to choosing your wedding dress, white is not the only option. You have a myriad of colors & styles to choose from these days. This year sustainable fashion designers are showcasing their designs and you will have more choices than ever before. Whether you decide to stay away from white completely or add a splash of color to a white gown, you have many options with styles and color!

I say select your favorite shade and make it work!

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In This Issue

Floral for Every Scene
White is not the only option
A Girl's Best Friend
The Unveiled look................................................................

Pg. 1

Shop Talk...........................................................................

Pg. 2
Grooms Room - Armed and ready
Honeymoon in Paradise.......................................................
Pg. 3

A Blooper or Memory Builder?
The Cupcake Trend Continues
Culture and Traditions..........................................................

pg.4

Bridal Show Calendar.........................................................

Pg.5
AmazingPhotos.................................................................. pg. 6
Ceremonies
Venues with a View.............................................................
pg. 7

A Girl's Best Friend ...
and so many choices from the ring to the hair piece, brides
are finding ways to bling it on!


Erica Courtney

Nordstrom Bridal

Glass beads and faux pearls topped with dainty bows ornament a statement-making multi-chain necklace.

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kate spade new york 'pavé posey' necklace . The Bejeweled Bride

the Unveiled look Head Wraps, Hair Ornament, Hair Pin and even flowers for the unique you!
Tasha Crystal Wire Ribbon Head Wrap

Tasha Crystal Wire Ribbon Head Wrap

 

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Vol. 12 l Issue 4 Fall /Winter 2010 - P. 2
 
 

Shop Talk

Shoes for every party, every spin on the dance floor—and, of course, your walk down the aisle. SHOP BRIDAL SHOES

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Delphine Manivet
James - Delphine Manivet Short dress in silk
organza baby peach

Runaway Bride Shoe Kit
The ultimate solution to wedding day comfort

Six best selling Foot Petals products are packaged together for theBellissima ultimate solution to wedding day comfort
ultimate solution to wedding day comfort and confidence.

Kit includes one pair of white Tip Toes, one pair silver rose Heavenly Heelz, a package of white Strappy Strips, a pair of white Killer Kushionz, two pair of clear Sole Stopperz and a pair of rose Petal Plusheez - cozy socklets to soothe and comfort before and after the wedding.

Getting a Comfortable Fit

Don't be mistaken
"diy bride"
doesn't = cheezy

There are brides that want to put that special touch
on their wedding so they can say "I did that"!

The 2011 Savvy Brides are talented and want
to showcase their talents.


Petite Polka Dot DIY Packet
Creating a custom

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personalized look of your own has never been easier! With this do-it-yourself packet you can create not only your own invitation but also enclosure cards to match! This packet features a bright white, petite polka dot invitation card with matching envelopes and bright white, polka dot fold-over enclosure

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Sleepwear that reads comfort and style

Bare Necessities

Invites with Detail

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Modern graphic heart design with "happy valentine's day" message. Greeting card letterpressed on recycled white cardstock with matching white recycled envelope.
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Vol. 12 l Issue 4 Fall /Winter 2010 - P.3
 

The Grooms Room

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Armed and Ready...
So you say you are ready for the most important day of your life, but do you have your Groom's Survivor Kit?

The kit is very easy to put together, but you may want to ask the best man or designated member of the family or bridal party to take this task on.

First find a savvy, cool place to store these survivor items for your stress free day. Storing items in places like an accordion folder, duffle bag with compartments, or light weight toolbox will work, but you can be creative and come up with an item that can be used after the big day!. Whatever you decide on, make sure it's something durable that will withstand multiple handlers.

Here are a few ideas for your GROOM’S Survivor KIT

Freshen up: Mouthwash, toothpaste, breath mints, deodorant , cologne , comb/hair, brush and shaving cream.

Extras: Black socks (a few pair), vest elastic back, white, black
and gray gloves, cufflink sets (2 – 3), collar extenders, shirt buttons (white and pearly gray).

Sewing Kit: Thread in a few colors of wardrobe selection for the big day), needles, buttons, glue sticks, super glue and a glue gun, stain remover, masking and duck tape, small scissors or pocket knife.

First Aid: Aspirin/Tylenol, ice pack, smelling salts, wet hand wipes, and cough drops, band-aids, medical tape, antibacterial solutions, sunscreen, matches/lighter and eye drops.

Just incase: Pocket change (coins for phone, parking meter, soda vending machine etc.), cell phone and list of phone numbers for important people in the wedding party and a list of all your vendors cell phone numbers. Waterproof your checklist and keep it handy for quick reference. If there's potential for rain - have umbrellas handy. Be sure to throw in a few snacks.

This should keep you out of trouble and keep the party rolling smoothly. Click here for more information on the bride's emergency kit.

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Vol. 12 l Issue 4 Fall /Winter 2010 - P.4
 

A Blooper or a Memory Builder?
Rev. Judy Winkler

Brides confide that their biggest fear is something going wrong during their ceremony. They are afraid they will be embarrassed and won’t know how to handle it.

Select your minister and other providers that you have complete faith in so you know that even if glitches happen, they have the experience to recover easily and will handle things with grace.

At my very first wedding ceremony, I asked the 3-year old ring bearer to give the rings to the best man. The string knotted so the best man couldn't get the rings off the pillow. I recalled the photographer used his pocket knife before the ceremony so I suggested he lend a hand. The rings flew off the pillow & rolled on the hardwood floor half way down the church. The guests look horrified.

I said to the couple, “We have just built a wonderful story to tell your grandchildren.” Everyone laughed; the rings were retrieved and we carried on. The couple said they were so glad this happened because it made their wedding more memorable.

A groomsman fainted during one of my ceremonies. I asked 2 people in a front row to give him a chair, get ice for the back of his neck & have him put his head between his knees. He recovered quickly. We finished the ceremony. Guests referred couples to me because of the way I handled the situation. I calmly did what needed to be done and moved forward.

When we accept things as they come, make the very best of it and move on, we are called poised and confident.

Once I did a wedding for a marine & his bride. The wedding planner’s chair covers were delivered late – his supplier goofed. The planner was frantic. The groom & groomsmen were angry because of the delay & didn’t want to help him. I feared the planner would have a heart attack so I helped him carry in chair covers & told him it was going to be okay. When the marines saw me helping, they pitched in too & everything was handled with ease.

Our most embarrassing moments can become our signature stories that inspire others, bring a laugh or simply remind us that we survived and all is still well.

Brides, select vendors you trust and remember what may look like a blooper is simply a fabulous memory builder.

Rev. Judy Winkler
Spiritual Coach
(619) 795-9996
San Diego, CA
www.weddingswthheart.com
Speak Kindly, Love Generously

The Cupcake Trend Continues

Maryanne Photography

With all the choices in presenting cupcakes for your wedding, who wouldn't be excited about having "Wedding Cupcakes" for their own wedding?

There are an unlimited number of cake flavors to choose from when deciding which flavors to go with, yes flavor(s), as you can offer your guest more than 1 or 2 flavors as you would when planning for a wedding cake. When ordering wedding cupcakes your options are endless. Not to mention the number of toppings/frostings to choose from. And when it comes to presenting the small tasty treats you can be creative as can be while keeping your wedding theme in mind! Cupcakes can be dressed for any theme so have fun with it.

If you're worried about not having a cake to cut into for the traditional cake cutting ceremony no worries, I'm sure your baker will be happy to bake you a larger version of the cupcake to have your traditional cake cutting ceremony.

Have fun planning for your preferred wedding dessert!

Culture and Traditions

Many brides and grooms will be getting personal in 2011, by incorporating culture wedding traditions to their wedding. Whether it be by providing traditional decor, food, drink or music, bridal couples will be placing a culture mark on their special day. View our list of Cultural Customs & Traditions here, like India Wedding Traditions or start out with Wedding Traditions from Around the World ~ Connecting the past with the present for the future.

 

 

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Vol. 12 l Issue 5 Fall /Winter 2010 - P.5
 
 

Bridal Shows

The Bridal Bazaar presents San Diego's largest runway fashion
show featuring the latest wedding styles for everyone in your bridal party.

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Sunday, January 30, 2011
10:00am - 4:00pm
San Diego Convention Center,
Halls G&H
111 West Harbor Drive
San Diego, CA 92101
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Del Mar, CA 92014

 

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Vol. 12 l Issue 4 Fall /Winter 2010 - P. 6
 

“What amazing photos!”
by Mark Hillis, Unveiled Wedding Photography

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What amazing photos. Words that every bride wants to hear after sharing pictures of her wedding day. However, navigating the photography market to find a photographer that will deliver a product that will garner such a response can be a tricky and sometimes confusing journey. By following a few tips, being aware of some things to look for and some key questions to ask, you can make your search more focused on finding a photographer that will give you the results that you desire.

1. Ask their experience level. Being the main photographer is much different than being an assistant or a second shooter, and unless they have done a lot of weddings as the main/primary photographer it will show in your images and how well they keep your timeline on track. Inexperience can lead not only to poor quality photos, but can result in missed moments and a delayed time line causing overtime to your other vendors if the photographer holds everything up. Look for someone with at least 100 weddings under their belt where they were the lead photographer. Like any profession, more experience equals a higher probability of success.

2. Look at a lot of work from the photographers you are considering, not just the “best of” on their website. Think of on line web galleries like you do a movie trailer. It shows a few best snippets from the event, but doesn't’t always give an accurate account of the “full length feature”. Ask the photographer you are considering if you can see two or three full weddings. Most photographers can provide you a link to view these images, and shouldn't’t hesitate to do so as this will allow you to see the consistency of their work and their ability to capture the whole day, not just a couple “web worthy” shots.

2. Look at a lot of work from the photographers you are considering, not just the “best of” on their website. Think of on line web galleries like you do a movie trailer. It shows a few best snippets from the event, but doesn't’t always give an accurate account of the “full length feature”. Ask the photographer you are considering if you can see two or three full weddings. Most photographers can provide you a link to view these images, and shouldn't’t hesitate to do so as this will allow you to see the consistency of their work and their ability to capture the whole day, not just a couple “web worthy” shots.


3. In addition to looking at full weddings on line, see some photographs in person if at all possible. Seeing actual prints of their images will tell you a more complete story about their skill that on line viewing can sometimes leave out. While web galleries will give you a great feel for their “eye”, style and consistency, viewing photos in person will allow you to see the quality of their images where it really matters, in a print! Slightly out of focus images may appear sharp on your monitor, but the actual print may be disappointingly soft. These results may be from lack of technical ability, non-professional gear and other shortcomings. Monitors are low resolution and are very forgiving of low photo quality compared to actual enlargements. Look at as much work in person as you can to get a feel for the quality of the finished, enlarged photos and albums.

Unveiled Wedding on Wedding Connections4. One last tip to keep in mind as you search for a photographer: While looking for the best deal and sticking to your budget is an important step in finding all your vendors, don’t sacrifice quality to save a little money. If you found someone a little less expensive than your first choice photographer, or one who offers different options or products, go back to your first choice and ask them if they would be willing to work with you a little, or if they offer similar options. Knowing that they are your first choice, but you can’t quite swing the price might encourage them to be a bit flexible if they are able to, or to work out a package where you can add options(prints, albums, digital files, upgrades, etc.) later as you can afford them.

Great, quality photos are a definite reality for your wedding. Photos that capture the spirit of the day, the little moments you didn't’t know happened, and the special once in a life time ones that you want to cherish forever are all within reach. Asking the appropriate questions of your photography candidates and looking at a lot of work, both on line and in person will help you choose the photographer that is best for your wedding and will insure that you, too, will hear those words “What amazing photos!”

Mark Hillis, Unveiled Wedding Photography
10902 Avenida Benjamin
La Mesa, CA 91941
p: 619-660-2712
mark@unveiledwedding.com

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Vol. 12 Issue 4 Fall /Winter 2010 - P. 7
 

Ceremonies by Nancy Turner, Wedding Officiant

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The wedding season in California extends beyond October and continues in full swing. Destination Weddings in Napa County account for more than half of all marriage licenses issued by the county and in the busy season that number is closer to two-thirds. Couples coming from out of state often bring wedding parties and numerous guests with them for a full week of activities in the wine country, in San Francisco, at the coast or up in the mountains. Couples also elope to Napa from other California Counties with the advantage of having a much more pleasant experience purchasing their marriage license from a small county with amiable clerks to assist them.

I meet many couples that want to step outside the proverbial box and choose a ceremony that will complement their vision and lifestyle instead of following tradition. In response to this trend, and because I believe that words are free and are meant to be shared, I include many ceremony samples on my website. Couples choose ceremony styles and then decide on segments or pieces, poems and blessings to create their envisioned experience.

Within my website, on the page named “Alternative Elements” you will come across segments including a Sand Ceremony, a Wine Ceremony, a traditional Unity Candle segment, an example of a vow to an existing child, the Four Directions Ceremony or a piece called Centering.

When we begin creating a ceremony I ask the couple to peruse the samples and choose the styles that demonstrate their preference for:
• How their guests are greeted; this frequently includes references to loved ones who have passed on

• If they want to describe their histories, their dreams, why they were drawn to each other and maybe the symbolism of their chosen ceremony location


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• Including a statement of intention that might also incorporate a reading that demonstrates how the bride and groom relate to the importance of sharing their intention in the presence of their guests
• Their preferred vow type – to repeat, speak or read pre-written vows
• The manner in which they will exchange their rings and the words used to describe the rings as reminders of their committed union
• Deciding if they want a poem; possibly read by a member of the wedding party, a family member or the officiant
• How the pronouncement will be made

Next, the selections are ‘word-smithed’ into a draft for editing and for the assurance that a gentle flow has been attained. With a final version that speaks to their heart, I fashion a comb-bound, keepsake memento booklet from which the ceremony is read and which the couple saves, maybe to read again on each anniversary!

I invite you to view my website, and all of its pages, at www.aceremonyoflove.com and offer you blessings as you make perfect choices for the creation of your public vows
as they will set the atmosphere for you to follow your dreams and proceed down your new path of commitment!

A Ceremony of Love
Nancy Turner, Wedding Officiant
celebrant@aceremonyoflove.com
www.aceremonyoflove.com

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